Huge number of poems and songs dedicated to the unfortunate unrequited love … Many people somehow believe that this phenomenon is more typical for teenagers. Possible. But in any other age can happen such trouble.
Most likely, such a thing as unrequited love at one point in life, each of us felt. But whether it can be regarded as normal? There is only one answer to this question. And it is negative – no love, no response even love at all, but rather a love obsession and addiction. But what if the love is unrequited? Like what? Treat!
Getting rid of unrequited love
If you do not know what to do with unrequited love, how to get rid of it, follow the simple tips.
Determine if it was love. Pick up a piece of paper and on one side write everything you know about your favorite. What he has positive features, only “beautiful eyes” do not need to consider here. Write to specific facts that you like crazy, which once attracted your attention. He is worthy of your love? What a pleasant deeds he commits? If your list is quite small, and after the third item you stumbled and do not know what to write – maybe it was not love at all, but a simple sympathy, no more. Maybe all your suffering only a figment of imagination. In this case, everything is quite simple: if you invented this love, then, from the head to throw too can.
Do so in order not to bump into things and places connected with your loved ones.
Do not let depression ensnare you. Try to isolate themselves from the beloved not communicate, do not look at pictures of him and do not go to his page on the social networks, do not try to find out what’s new at it happened, and most importantly – do not discuss man with family and friends.
Find cons of this man. Remember that sheet that recorded positive features of your favorite? Now on the back of his side need to write all the qualities that this man you do not like. Just do not look at it through rose-colored glasses that are so characteristic of love to wear. For example, he smokes, but you are follower of healthy lifestyle. Or around your man is always a huge number of girls – most likely he’s windy and not reliable enough.
Often switch to the “next wave”. If you notice that often in your thoughts return to the beloved – switch! Turn on the television, read interesting books, do some shopping, meet with friends. So have fun! And forbid myself to even think about calling off his man. You’re strong!