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What Does it Take to Make a Relationship Work?

by yak max

So many of us have grown into productive adults and yet we face a huge problem, we have never learned what it takes to make a relationship work. We have focused for so long on becoming successful and obtaining all the things that we desire that we never took the time to learn what it takes to make a relationship work. We easily attract a mate and enjoy going out on dates but when it comes to having a successful relationship, we fail.

Making a relationship work actually does take work. Many people think that it will all work itself out and things will somehow end up the way that they are supposed to end up but the truth is that just like everything else in life, we have work hard to make our relationships work. The most important thing that it takes to make a relationship work is being committed to making it work. This is much more than just hoping things will work out. Both partners must commit to each other that no matter what happens they will be willing to work on the relationship and do whatever it takes to make the relationship a success.

If we want to have a successful relationship, we must learn how to communicate effectively with our partner. This means that when we are upset or facing problems that we do not get angry and yell at our partner. We do not avoid the situation, and we do not just ignore the problem. Communicating effectively means that we are able to sit down and discuss whatever the situation may be with our partner. We need to be able to tell them exactly what we are facing and how we are feeling. Without effective communication relationships will fail.

If you want to make a relationship with another person work, you must have a great relationship with yourself. If you do not love yourself, no one else will be able to love you. It is your job to make yourself happy, not your partner’s job. If you work to ensure that you are a happy person and you are fulfilled, your relationship will be happy and fulfilled. This leads into being able to trust your partner. If you have a great relationship with yourself, you will be confident with yourself. If you are confident with yourself, you will be able to trust your partner. If you cannot trust your partner and are always questioning them or accusing them of doing different things that you do not want them to do then you cannot make your relationship work.

Learning how to make a relationship work is a long process, it is best learned if you find a partner who wants to learn how to have a successful relationship also. If you do not take the time to learn how to have a successful relationship than you will never have one. You see, just like everything else you take on in life, if you do not learn how to do it correctly, you will never do it correctly.

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