Guys are you looking to win over your girlfriend’s heart? Well. we really aren’t that complicated. If you want to make the woman in your life happy, it’s not too hard. There are some things that secretly make women happy, and she may not tell you because it would defeat the purpose. The thought is what counts, so I’ll give you guys out there a clue. Here are my top five things that girls love.
Put her first
Putting your girlfriend first goes a long way…all the way to the alter, and till death do you part. When you think of her in little things like turning down the air even though you’re hot because she said she’s cold. Your girl’s heart is turning to mush. When you go to the movies, it’s great to take her to the movie she wants to see. Especially on the first date. Even if it’s a chick flick guys! She will love you for it. Of course as time progresses it’s about compromise. Girls are secretly giddy when their boyfriends say to them “whatever you want baby.” Now if she ask for your opinion/idea right after. Offer it, never get caught in the “what do you want to do, I don’t know, what do you want to do cycle.
Public display of affection
Okay, listen carefully guys, I’m not saying you should tongue her down in public. Some girls dislike kissing and hugging when you’re in the midst of a crowd of people, or even just a few people. You can tell if your girlfriend likes this kind of display of affection by asking her. However, she may lie and say yes, if she feels like she going to hurt your feelings when saying no. Or you can experiment and her a kiss when a lot of people are around. If she backs away quickly or turns to the side, she probably doesn’t like the public display, if other signs are positive that it’s not you. Let’s get back on track..girls love, love, love, attention. Especially when it’s in front of people. This means showing you love her by being a gentlemen. Open the door for her, tell her how beautiful she is, buy her nice things, stand up for her etc. Your girlfriend loves when you tell her she beautiful. However, women secretly love their man drooling all over them in this way in front of a crowd. So if you tell her she’s beautiful with a lot of people seeing or hearing, you just scored extra bonus points.
Ignore the beautiful girl that passed you
Do you want your girlfriend to brag about how great you are to her all her friends? Well you can single handily do this by not going out of your way to look at pretty girls you see while you’re with her. Now of course we know you have eyes. So don’t do either of these two things. Number 1: Act like you didn’t see her, then on the sly try to look. Number 2: Stand stiff like a freak until she passes. So what do you do??? Look, if you “have” too, don’t look if you don’t. It’s that simple guys. What you don’t know is the girl that just passed, (if she isn’t conceited) is secretly thinking wow, I want my boyfriend to be like that.
Woo her family/friends
When you show love to her family and friends, she will be super happy because she doesn’t have to convince them why she should love you. You make it easy for her, by making it easy for them to see what she sees in you. Now don’t go overboard with that and make someone think you’re romantically interested. There is a thin line between friendly and flirty.
Be her handyman
Rule number 1: Only be your girlfriend’s handy man if you are handy or capable of learning to be. If you don’t know what you are doing, you can make the problem worse and that’s not the goal. All women love it when their man can fix things around the house, their car, and even a problem. If you can fix things, great! Your girlfriend will love you for it. What you didn’t know is your girlfriend is secretly happy when you fix things without her asking. That’s scoring major points guys! Not only that, but if you can’t fix something..but you learn..so that you can..and you actually fix it! Well let’s just say you are her hero for the day.