Have you ever met someone and been instantly intrigued? If you have, you know that feeling they put ignite. It is as if everything is mysterious and new. The people who know the art of intrigue seem to have a secret that is lost on the rest of us. Would you like to learn it? Follow these three steps, and I guarantee you that you will be the most intriguing person at any function you attend.
1. Be clear but brief
While playing coy may feel more intriguing the truth is we are intrigued by those that are authentic. Being clear when speaking to other’s will draw them in, keep their interest and allow you to remain the talk of the town. Follow this attention by remaining brief in your interactions, once you have their attention engage someone else. Flowing in out of conversations with multiple people will keep everyone intrigued.
2. Be Unattached
I do not necessarily mean single, although if you are looking for romance that is best. Remain unattached to the circumstances, as if you are willing to engage but not dependent on it. This act will create a desire in other’s to be around you.
3. Eye Contact
You do not have to avoid or deflect to be intriguing. In fact, the opposite is most often true. People our intrigued by those that stand in pure authenticity and do not seem uncomfortable. Making eye contact with those you meet and interact with is the best way intrigue them. Once they see a bit of your soul, they will want to know more.