My life is living in the now which brings adventures one could never imagine. The way I see it the only way of living is to be your own being and having faith which say’s do what makes you happy. What makes me happy is a great job, luxury condo, clothes, shoes, fancy restaurants, jazz, dancing, having a devoted lover who is also my best friend and 100 percent gentleman, someone like this, and we will be happy and content spoiling each other that’s for sure.
Being a suburban girl I find the city pretty awesome, here for only four months already used to the high volume tempo the city life offers, honks, yells, musical harmony, kisses that are blown, HI’s, olla’s, flirts, smiles, small talk and that’s just on the way to a destination. I say if negative vibes try to grab me and hold me down when I come up for air I just fight with all the strength I have and then take a deep breath and ride the wave!
In this world street smarts and book smarts are a necessity. I mean if B’s can call themselves b’s and be proud, then the Loyal Ladies can stand up and be proud to love themselves and enjoy the real gentlemen out there, (sending a shout out to the real gentlemen, you are appreciated.) YES, there are real men that are true and don’t cheat and love a monogamous relationship. One should never beg for love, because love comes when it’s needed and so enjoy the now. If you don’t have love now always look for love in the next moment, respect love within yourself which draws it to you before you know it. Always realize and understand that what goes around comes back around so know how to treat friends and family.
I love to date until I find my mate, and once I do then we can be in love forever, yes, I mean forever, if you laugh and say that’s silly or not real, that’s ok it just means that for you, and you are exactly where you need to be in life. I love fully not afraid to let someone go if they want out of my life. Someone is always waiting for me and the love I have it never goes away and it won’t be wasted on a player, aka the man whore. People say take caution when it comes to love, I say no, when I feel love is right I follow my heart and let love flow and enjoy every drop and if it doesn’t last so what!! It is ok to feel sad for a week maybe two, but always smile and know that the love given and enjoyed was great and now something even more fantastic is waiting! So, just move on with no regrets and always love for real if he is the real deal then he will stay, forever. You don’t need to experience everything in order to learn from it.
Music changes most things and Savage Garden and Lionel Richie will always be my go to for love songs. Makes me want to dance all weekend! Don’t need to drink to dance all night and enjoy friends, but food; I mean fun food is a must.
Just because you are of the older generation doesn’t have to mean that you are half dead. Always having something to look forward to is the best way, in my book, to have joy, whether it is going out with friends to a restaurant, or the beach, or movies on whatever days off one can match up, this adds oomph to life, and everyone needs this.
One day while out with friends they wanted to go to this fair that was going on and I was so excited I went shopping and bought a whole outfit just for the occasion, sometimes shopping is good! Fashion is a great way to express who you are as a person; I believe this to be so true. I wore the luscious big swanky curly hair style with the classic 20’s-30’s fitted clothes, in black gothic colors, topped off with heels and fashionable accessories. Felt great, had tons of fun and had a great response for both people I knew and didn’t know. When you are out and about it is good to always notice the surroundings and take in what is going on around you, you will be surprised every time of things you may have missed because you weren’t looking. Always have the camera ready to take pictures of unexpected happenings, good things always happens to people who look for good things to happen. If you are always loyal you will find it comes back to you. Always be loyal to what you believe in, yourself, family, and friends that you trust. My motto on that is believed in them until they give you a reason not to.
Uninhabited is simply having faith in, whatever you choose to believe and knowing it brings joy, peace of mind and contentment no matter what crosses your path. Faith has taught me how to be free of religious and political holds. I believe in free will and don’t care in who or what you choose to favor or believe in and at the same time not afraid to go to battle if you try to force me into anything or infringe on what I believe to be true. I don’t mind listening to you though. Believe it or not, listening can take a lot of practice; it’s not good to have a conversation and think about what you plan to say once the person that is talking shuts up; this just proves you weren’t listening. Look them in the eyes and just simply listen.
Loyal to the fitness, this is a big one it is for everybody in my opinion, it’s never too late to fine tune things and feel great at the same time, in this way my theory is I can eat when I want and whatever I want, yes, I said it, Always do what makes you happy.