Have you ever looked back at the people you have dated only to realize that you are dating those who do not deserve you? Have you been dating losers? There is a way to stop dating the same type of people, and find someone who really deserves you and who will treat you the way you want to be treated.
The first step you need to take is to write down the qualities that you want in your partner. Do you want them to be honest, cheerful, or giving? Do you want them to be successful with their own home? Maybe someone who focuses on their health? These are all qualities that you will want to write down. Take time when you decide to do this task. Make sure you get all the qualities you want written down.
After you have created a list, you need to go back over the list and mark the qualities that are necessary in your future partner. Do not just mark the things you want like black hair and blue eyes, mark the things that matter to you. Will you date someone who has children? That is something that is important.
Now you need to focus on each of these qualities every day. Are these qualities that you possess? If you want someone who is successful and has a great job but you refuse to work, you are never going to get that person. You are going to get what you put in. If you find that you lie often, you are not going to find someone who is going to be honest with you all of the time.
The next thing you need to do is work on yourself. First, you have low self-value or you would not be accepting the type of relationships you have been. You for some reason do not believe that you deserve what you want. You have to release the belief that you do not deserve to be loved and accept that you deserve everything you could ever dream of. If you find that you do not possess the qualities that you want your future partner to possess than you should work on those qualities too. If you want to find someone who is physically fit and focuses on their health, I suggest that you are not 50 pounds overweight.
Now that you have decided what you want out of a partner, and have worked to become the person who can obtain that partner it is time to start looking for that person. When you meet someone, you need to compare them to your list. If they do not match up with the qualities that you determined were important to you than you should not even consider dating them. You need to move on to the next person and continue to do so until you find someone who matches what you want.
When you follow what you have learned in this article you will find that you are no longer dating losers but you are dating people who treat you the way you want to be treated. You will find that you are dating those who are successful and who match the qualities you want in a partner!