Often times when a relationship ends both of the partners want to work things out. Many times both partners are too stubborn to say anything to the other one and the relationship goes by the wayside. If you don’t want to lose your chance and rekindling your romance, make sure you look for all the signs listed below that will tell you if your ex wants you back.
1. Does your ex call or text you often? If your ex is the one who is calling and texting you it is a very good sign that they want you back. If they are keeping the lines of communication open it is not just because they are a good person. You see it is very easy to not answer a text or not call someone but when you care about someone, you want to talk to them. It is very difficult not to talk to someone who you love and want in your life.
2. Is your ex initiating the contact? This does not mean that you should never initiate contact with your ex, but if you do not contact them are they contacting you? When your ex is initiating contact it is a very good sign that they want you back. You see if they were not thinking about you they would not call or text. Once a relationship is over there is no obligation to contact the other party yet they want to check on you, tell you about their day, and see how yours is going.
3. Has your ex started dating anyone else? If your ex is not dating anyone else, it usually means they still harbor some feelings for you or are hoping to get back together with you. If on the other hand they immediately jump into another relationship you can pretty much guarantee things are over between the two of you.
4. Finally, you will know for sure that your ex wants you back when he tells you he wants to try to make things work. This may take some time but if he really does want you back and you don’t go around flaunting other men in his face, eventually he will come to you and tell you that he still loves you. He will tell you that he made a mistake and he wants to try again.
If it was your fault that the two of you broke up in the first place, and you really want to get your ex back, it is time for you to apologize and show some remorse for whatever you did. If your ex quickly says he forgives you and you can tell it is sincere, than that is a huge sign that they want you back.
If you simply look for any of the above mentioned signs, you will be able to tell without a doubt if your ex wants you back. If they do, congratulations, and if not I am sorry but it is time for you to move on with your life and find someone who will love you for who you are.