Things that I learnt the hard way!!
Majority of the population might have learnt these things early but in my case…well, I took little bit of time to analyse the same things.
Here is a short bullet point list that might come in handy, in case you need help while sailing.
– Be Polite, no matter how bad the situation is, believe me, you have the potential to make it worse! :D
Instead call up a friend and vent your anger, after all they have been trained to handle our crap.
-If you want something, the best you can do is ASK! You might or might not get it, but never hesitate, just go ahead and ASK!
-Help those who NEED help. Some people learn from “Practical Experience”…leave such souls. They will find their own way.
-ALWAYS keep in touch with your friends…no matter how busy you are!!
-And of course DO NOT REPLY to a flaming email immediately. That sudden surge of anger might want you to start a word war but be PATIENT! GOD HAS GIFTED YOU A WORKING BRAIN, YOU NEED TO USE IT…FOR YOUR OWN GOOD.
-Another lesson learnt so far…Flattery might come in handy at times. Being straightforward might get you into trouble…so, its always good to MASTER THE ART OF DIPLOMACY!
-AND the most Important thing is:
Never let your Achievements &/or your Failures affect you. Don’t think that you are the next Einstein or a Loser. Certain days might bring happiness and on others you might want to say why “ME!?” but everything is and will be TEMPORARY.
Just learn without bothering about success or failure, after all its our LIFE and not a REPORT CARD! :D