We all could use a little help when first meeting a girl. We get a little nervous and would like the both of us to be comfortable enough to be able to have conversations and get to know each other better to see if a relationship awaits. Well, after doing a little research, it seems as though you can’t go wrong if the two of you plan something outdoors. Nature can be relaxing and interesting, and there are plenty of activities available that the two of you might like.
1. Take her out on a picnic- This may sound a little old fashioned, but chivalry is never unwarranted. Find out what kinds of foods she likes. It’ll be even better if you already know and come prepared. Take her to a park or near a river, lake, or stream and enjoy the weather. If it’s snowing outside, make a fire and park by it. Bring a thermos of her favorite hot drink, whether it’s coffee or hot chocolate and get to know her. Bring some chairs and extra coats or a blanket for her. Introduce her to your more adventurous side and show her that you are confident enough to make an attempt at making her feel as comfortable, warm, and cozy as possible while you guys are together.
2. Hiking- If she’s up to the challenge, grab a cooler with cold water and Gatorades and take her down some interesting hiking trails you know of. She may even be able to introduce you to some in the area that you might not know about. Try not to be walking too far ahead of her, but make sure she isn’t getting covered in spiderwebs and whacked by limbs. Also, try and keep a slower pace because she may not be wanting to work up a sweat and have make-up dripping off her face. This could be done easier if you are making eye contact as the two of you are talking.
3. Swimming- In the middle of the summertime, there aren’t many things to do without breaking up a sweat. Take her to a lake somewhere and let her drive if she prefers. She may want to learn how to get there to take trips in the future. Bring a few fishing poles and some swimming trunks and have some fun out in the water. This is a good place for flirting and touching to take place and if you’re lucky there wont be many other people there so the two of you can really have some alone time and have the entire lake, beach or gravel bar to yourselves. Bring lotion, towels, drinks and sandals or anything else she may forget to bring. Being prepared will help things go a lot smoother so you guys will be able to spend as much time as possible together.
Further reading from the writer:
How to Approach a Woman
The Mystery of What Women Want
Things That Will Drive Your Woman Wild!
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