You may find yourself wanting to start a new relationship after and old one has ended but you are unsure if you really are over your ex. You think you are over them, and you really want to be over them but you know if you start a relationship and you are truly not over them, you will only hurt the new person in your life. So what are the signs that you are over your ex?
As sad as it is, many people find themselves constantly checking the status updates of their ex on Facebook. If you notice that this no longer interests you and you are doing it less and less than you are getting over your ex. If you find that you never check their status any longer, you are over your ex and ready to move on with your life. However, if you find that you continue to check what they have posted on Facebook, and try to read the hidden messages than you are defiantly not over your ex and should not begin a new relationship.
When people first break up, they may try to call the other person or send text messages often. When was the last time you sent your ex a text message? Was it over a week ago? If you find that you no longer feel the need to text your ex or try to call them than you are ready to move on with your life. If you are still trying to fight the urge to text them on a daily basis, you should take more time before starting a new relationship. You may be ready to go on a few dates but it should not go further than that.
If you no longer find yourself fanaticizing that your ex will come back than you might be over them. When people first break up we tend to tell ourselves that it really isn’t over and the person is going to come back when they realize what they have lost. If you finally understand that your ex is not coming back and that they have moved on with their life and you are able to accept it good for you, you are ready to get out there again!
You realize that all those quirks he had really are not that cute. When you are finally over your ex you will see them for what they really are, not through the rose colored glasses of your relationship. Those things that you thought were so adorable will just become weird things your ex does.
One of the easiest ways to tell if you are over your ex is that you find yourself attracted to other men! This will be the last sign that you will look for and it is one of the greatest. When we are in a relationship, we are focused on the person we are with. We may glance at another person but we never feel that physical connection like we do with the person we are with. You will know for sure that you are over your ex when you find that you can finally look at other people and be physically attracted to them.