Many women believe that many men are very reluctant to legitimize the procedure of his relationship with a woman. But why men do not want to get married?
Very often women simply do not understand why a man so slow to a marriage proposal. He is afraid of something? Perhaps men themselves will not be able to answer this question. This is typical of more women understand the intricacies of relationships and their own thoughts. Men need time to reflect.
We all know that a woman can understand a man like her and if she wants relations with him literally in the first few minutes after their meeting. That is, after a couple of minutes, she understands if she wants to go with a particular man to the altar. The representatives of the stronger sex mulling it differently.
To understand such different attitudes to marriage, should refer to the child’s education.
Man – earner
Moms often tell their young daughters that they need to find a good man, marry him, and create a solid family. These words are so strong in the minds of girls that she carries through life one thing: I need to get married.
Men, however, raise a little differently. They understand from childhood that should be breadwinners. And it needs to work and work again. First, get a good education, then earned a good position, and then buy a car. And only after that he develops the idea that he can start a family.
Yes, some get married earlier, right after high school or even in the first year at the university, for example. But such a marriage because of the poor financial position may soon dissolve.
Did you know that approximately 30 percent of all divorces happen because of the fact that the husband can not financially support my family And it’s so.
And if at any given moment a man can not financially afford to marry? What then? There are 2 options for girls: Wait until the guy will find a stable footing or diverge. And if she chooses the second, only because much wants to get married, what kind of love to his handpicked successor is there to say …
There are cases when a girl seriously declares her boyfriend that sex before marriage they will not. But this immediately raises a young man in a very awkward position. After all, sex – is a physiological need. While marriage – only social. Perhaps this is why men are much less likely than women trying to find a serious relationship. If even a man and dreams of such a relationship, but in any case, believe me, he will not try to marry the girl as soon as possible.
Yes, it also happens that a man is afraid to say goodbye to his freedom. After all, until such time as he does not marry, he can communicate with different girls, spend a day in the company of their friends. And most importantly, he would not have to explain where he was and why he came so late.