Throughout the world, a huge number of men are married, have mistresses. But fortunately, there are those who spend their lives remain faithful to one woman – his wife. Why there are so different views on family life? Why husbands have mistresses?
No woman will be pleased to share her lover with someone else. Yes, often, his wife and can not think that her husband was not faithful to her, believing that it is impossible to find a more perfect relationship than in their family. But sometimes, even completely convinced that her husband has a mistress, the wife is not in a hurry to divorce him and thereby destroy the family. This is facilitated by a variety of reasons: the children, a private non-realization in work and career and stuff. Yet, it is possible to understand the causes of infidelity.
Tired of life and wants a new
Only marrying most newlyweds is pleased: there caress, love and tenderness. But over time, the couple begin to take hugs and kisses as something superfluous and unnecessary.
But there comes one and not the perfect moment when the man realizes that he does not get the same affection, flirting, ease in relationships. A wife is not changing. Here then start cheating. And it absolutely does not mean that a man has ceased to love his wife. No. He still treats her well, but he wants a certain game. Most often, men do not give this relationship some special meaning, they do not consider it serious.
But no woman, possessive by nature, do not understand and can not accept such behavior is her favorite. Before the wedding, the relationship seemed fine and light, and now what? The answer is quite simple: life “destroyed” attitude.
What to do?
You should try as much as possible to spend more time together – a common leisure. Do what you both like and that brings you.
Adultery – the essence of man
Here, everything is much more complicated. If you caught the so-called womanizer Casanova and change such a man, you would be quite difficult, and perhaps impossible. Why do women marry these men? Maybe they just do not realize what men actually, maybe they just love this type of men. But if a woman decides to marry one of these Don Juan, is no reason to hope that he will always remain faithful to her. There are, of course, exceptions, when meeting with the love of his life completely changes a person, but this is unlikely.
What to do?
Only likely to divorce or endure. Hardly anything else can save your marriage.
Nowadays it is prestigious to have a mistress. Especially for successful and adult men encountered with their business partners in saunas or restaurants, for example. In such places are not taken to drive their wives.
Such betrayal can last for several years – the time it will require status.
Now you know what to do if my husband got a mistress. And if he would do this depends not only on him but also on you. Husband and wife must understand and trust each other, otherwise the changes simply can not be avoided.