If we imagine that relationship – it’s a ship that sails on the stormy waves of the ocean of life, the question often arises, who should run this ship? Who is the head of the family: a man or a woman?
Of course, it is generally believed that the lead in the relationship must be a man. So Historically, the dominant position in the family is always allotted to men. However, in recent times, women are increasingly becoming leaders: make decisions, make more money than their husbands, and in general, “solve all problems.”
On the other hand, the expectation that the man will be the leader in the relationship can lead to the fact that the modern woman is afraid to start earning a lot, to become successful, not to become a sort of “a man in a skirt.”
Successful but lonely girl
For example, my client – young, beautiful, quite successful in terms of career, but lonely woman – thought that if she herself would buy a house and will earn enough to easily satisfy all its needs and whims, the man simply did not need .
I must say that we have identified the problem, when the question of purpose in life. I asked what else she would like but relations. It turned out that in her view, to be happy, you need to create a relationship with a man who will make good money, buy an apartment for their families and will provide a woman. Thus, it turned out that she can be happy only when such a man appears.
Unfortunately, this view is quite common in our society. Many girls and women are afraid to become independent financially, afraid that if men will see that they are well and without a relationship, men are not interested in them.
What attracts men to women?
In fact, in my opinion, the problem is that just the opposite is usually a man looking for a woman that is not assigned to it too many expectations.
As a rule, and I think it is difficult to argue with this, men are attracted to women who are filled with joy, next to which is warm and cozy, with those who enjoy life.
In fact, usually remain alone are not those women who are able to reach certain goals. Nothing contradictory in this. It is important just to keep balance and not make a choice: either work, or relationships. Of course, difficult to attract a man, if all attention is focused on the job and next to you is simply no place for him.