Nobody’s perfect. However, If you are looking for an ideal companion, a person worthy of your love, then here’s a few important guidelines to help determine if he’s the right man for you.
1. He’s behavior towards his mother
To most of us, our mothers are one of the most important and special beings in our lives. We share a strong bond, a special kind that never dies out. A good man treats his mother well. He respects and loves her all through their differences. His behavior towards her should show you he’ll treat you in future.
2. He’s Ambitious
The bitter truth is, a man who lacks determination or enthusiasm to make it in life, will only bring you misery and disappointments. A good man has goals and ambitions. Not only so but he also sees yours as equally important. You shouldn’t allow yourself to settle for less.
3. He Respects You
A real man respects and values his lady. He naturally feels the need to treat and talk to you in a civilized manner whether or not there’s people around. He wants everyone else to respect her too.
When a man starts throwing ugly words at you (like using the “b” word) or comfortably making hurtful remarks with no care in the world about how it would make you feel, then there’s definitely a problem.
4. He is Truthful, reliable and open with you
This are crucial values that are required in any functional relationship. A good man is honest about who they are and the life they live. He shouldn’t have a reason to lie or hide things from you. If he ain’t trustworthy now he won’t be in the future.
5. He Accepts you Just the Way You Are
A good guy won’t attempt to change who you are all for his personal satisfaction. He takes you as you are and sees through your imperfections. Unless it involves something that brings about a negative impact to the relationship like you being a mean alcoholic.
6. He Pays Attention When You Talk
He shows interest in what you have to say. This shows he finds your ideas or opinions important and worth listening to.
7. He keeps his Promises
A good man is one who stays true to his word. If he keeps giving you excuses or disappoints you constantly, you should see this as a red flag of what to be expected in times to come.
8. He’s not Intimidated By You
A good man is not intimidated by an independent woman or ones that expresses their thoughts and opinions freely. He should instead appreciate the uniqueness of having a woman with the same mindset as his.
9. He gives you enough quality Time
A good man will always find time to spend with you regardless of his busy schedule. He should consider you a priority and invest his time in nurturing a fruitful relationship with you.
10. Shows he’s true feelings for you.
He’s not afraid or too proud to show and tell you how he really feels about you. Instead he wants not only you to know, but the whole world to know that he finally found the right woman for him.
If you found a man with all this characteristics, he’s a keeper. Hold on to him. Not everyone is as lucky.