The dating game can be a fun experience. While it is fun, you need to remember that you are searching for the right person for your life. When you meet people for dates, you need to watch for some things as you have all that fun. That way, you help yourself get through kissing all the frogs, or not, as the case may be, and find the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. The intentions of the people that you meet are very important. So far, you know that you should take time before meeting someone from the Internet. You probably have also learned that you should meet in a public place and take safety precautions. These things should really happen anytime you meet someone new. There are other things, which you can easily be spotted after this stage as well. Here are some more tips for the dating game.
After you have been dating someone for a while, you will begin to loose that first flush of “infatuation” and move onto the normalization of your emotions and into real love. You will either move forward or move back into the dating scene. In order to know if that is working for you, ideally, you need a person that is similar to you in likes and beliefs so you can become a couple and potentially be together for life. That requires compatibility. There are people out there that won’t be compatible with others until they grow up. It’s not your job to help then grow up. So watch for these things that show the intentions of your guy or girl. They can appear in some of the following ways.
- Leaving out the details.
- It’s only physical
- He or She is M.I.A.
- You haven’t met the friends
Leaving Out the Details
If your guy or girl is hesitant to share details of his or her life, then there’s generally something to hide. If you ask about the details and he or she ever blows up at you, then it’s a definite hidden agenda. Ask more questions or leave the relationship if this behavior continues. It is a sign of dishonest intentions.
It’s Only Physical
If all of your dates occur at night or at odd hours of the day or night, then chances are, you are nothing more than a “hook-up.” This applies as well; if all you ever do on your dates is have sex, then your guy or girl has intentions that won’t lead to a real relationship.
He or She is M.I.A.
If you are cruising through your day and suddenly call at a time when you normally wouldn’t, (and I do recommend that you try that at least once or twice), and the person doesn’t answer, then they might be busy. They might also be busy with someone else. The key is to watch the reaction of the call. If the person ever becomes defensive of the actions of not answering the call, then things might be dodgy. Delve deeper to tell.
You Haven’t Met the Friends
Meeting the person’s friends is always important. You must know who they are when they aren’t trying to impress you. The only way that you can do that is to meet his or her family and friends. If you are past the infatuation phase and still have not met the family or friends, then his or her intentions might be less than stellar.
These tips for the dating game should help you figure out your guy or girl’s intentions for the future. It’s a simple start, but it will definitely help you get past the “kissing frogs” point. That way you can find the right one for you.