So, maybe you have been watching them for a while now. You have probably hung out together, worked with them, talked on the phone, or sent them text messages. Through it all, you have grown to like them more than when you first met them. If so, here are four ways you can ask them to be your girlfriend or boyfriend.
The best way to ask somebody to be your lover is in person. This shows them your courage, confidence, and just how much you like them.
If you choose to do so in person, make sure that you do so at the right place and time. Try choosing an environment where you can have their undivided attention and as much time to talk as needed.
If you are shy or do not feel confident enough to speak to them in person, you can write them a letter. This will give you the opportunity to not only say why you chose to write them, but how you feel about them.
Also, you then can give them the opportunity to write you back. This way, they can address things with you as well that they may not feel as comfortable about talking in person.
Sending your prospective lover an email can work in the same manner as a letter would. However, you have a better chance of getting a quicker response with an email versus a letter through the assistance of today’s technology.
Through a Trusted Source
A trusted source or friend can help you convey your message of the want to take things further with your prospect. Not only can they relay your message for you, they can give you advice, and relay your prospect’s message back to you.
However, do not use them as an ongoing middle person. After they send your message, be sure to step in and take the lead in your pursuit for love and affection.