After a break up especially when it was a difficult one we all need a little time to heal. This varies for in length depending on many factors. So when do you know you are over it? For many, it is something that just happens. You wake up one day, and it doesn’t hurt anymore. Still, just in case you were wondering gif you have reached that place here are three signs that you are over your ex.
1. No More Tears
After a break up, most of us do a lot of crying. Every song on the radio stirs emotion, pictures that once brought fondness now ignite a storm of pain. Although slowly this will fade. It becomes easier to listen to music without attachment. When the tears are gone, you are well on your way to closure.
2. Dating Becomes An Option
I am not talking about rebounding; that is something totally different. I mean when you are ready to become emotionally invested in someone else. When you reach this space life has already begun to feel normal again. You are enjoying your life; your ex is no longer much of a thought to you.
3. Their Happiness Isn’t Offensive
This level of closure is the hardest to reach to reach. Even after you have moved on and started to feel better. The thought of your ex being happy with someone else may still rub you the wrong way. That is human nature. Although, when it is truly over, and you are completely healed their happiness will be good news.