Steps to rock your social life and become ‘THE’ person in the crowd!!
This is for all those attention seekers who want to become that one person in the crowd whom everyone likes and want to hang around with. If you are someone who is looking out for an uplift in your social life…and aspire to change it…then you should read ahead!! It is in fact in everyone’s blood to get that attention and be the topic of the crowd, to be that person who is loved by everyone, known by everyone, needed by everyone around. These are just simple steps that will work the magic in just a few days. Remember to be consistent in following the steps..and you shall be on top of the world!!!
Step 1: Look in the eye and say HI..!
This is the most important one. If you want others to acknowledge your presence then you should acknowledge their presence too.Now the point is how?? Eye contact is extremely necessary because that shows how confident you are as a person and if you really know what you are doing. Just remember even if you have spoken to a person just once,does not matter…just go ahead and say hi with a wide smile :D..the next time you see them. When ever you are walking alone or with someone else, be aware and conscious about who is around and the moment you see a familiar face..WAVE!!
Step 2: Have a topic to talk on!
Well once you are done acknowledging the presence, next is ‘talk’!! Here again you have to know what are the hot gossip topics. Be it sports, fashion, movies,celebrities,college, fest or just anything as simple as the day’s weather to something as complicated as your subjects. Just don’t give up to strike up that conversation randomly.
Step 3:Get involved in others life and share!
This is another thing that will help you up the ladder. Every time you talk to a person, be interested about the person’s life. Listen to what the person is talking. And you too share stuff about your life. This thing works because people feel they know you personally. Every time you pass by…judge whats happening in their life..and ask about it! Like if you know the person wrote an exam that day, say hi…and ask “how was it??”
Step 4: Remember Birthdays!!
Make it your everyday task to check if it is someone’s birthday. Even if you know very little of that person, go ahead and wish…trust me he/she will love you for that. It shows how much you care and how much of importance that person is for you. They will also give the same kind of importance.
Step 5:Say sorry and thanks
Making a mistake is common, but realizing that you did one is different and great. So say sorry, for the slightest mistake you do. And never forget to say thanks! When people help you out or serve you , just say thanks with a smile and look at the happiness in their eyes…you will feel awesome!! If some one thanks you for something you did, you would feel happy and that’s what others would feel too!
Have the forgive and forget attitude. Never see the intentions behind other’s action. You shall rock your life!
Step 6: Come out of the shell!!
All you have to do is take responsibility for you life and over come your weakness. Never hesitate..just go ahead and speak out! If you want to become a certain person then be it. Its a your life..and the freedom lies within you. Have ‘giving’ attitude. Help people around. Get involved in what’s happening around…take responsibility!!