Does remarriage some striking features which distinguish it from the first? Usually, the choice of the second man, a woman makes it even more consciously and carefully than the first. Now women pay more attention to mental and professional qualities beloved and not rush into the maelstrom of passion. They already have an idea about the course of family life, experience in a relationship …. Why again there are problems?
Differences in relation to marriage
There are several differences between the marriage of people who have never been married and unmarried couples in which one partner has already had experience of family life. These differences bring a number of problems:
First, for some reason society slightly different interpretation of the remarriage. And the second wedding is usually less chic than the first.
Secondly, when one partner had once family, he risks a very strong opposition of his family.
The main problems of remarriage
Comparison of former and current husband – a very, very dangerous mistake. Of course, from your memory have not gone all the memories of her first husband, its advantages and disadvantages, of pleasant and unpleasant events that you have experienced together. But never talk about all this when you are near your current man. Remembering the good qualities of her first husband, you can greatly hurt your loved one. He may decide that, in comparison with another man, he just loses.
Children from a previous marriage. They are quite often causes problems, scandals and conflicts in the newly formed family. Every woman wants the father of her child was a kind, intelligent and strong person who can help in difficult situations, and protect against all evil. When a man does it all, a woman is perfectly happy. But as soon as certain problems appear between the child and her second husband, there are problems in the relations themselves spouses.
Try to calm down and look at the situation from a different angle. The problem of fathers and children – eternal, and it does not depend on what your child is not native to the husband. Exactly the same problem at other times can happen and you have with your child.
If you decide to marry a divorced man, you need to evaluate its quality as a person. Indeed, such a marriage is still a bit riskier than a marriage in which both were never married.