You are married for many years and suddenly you start to notice that your husband does not pay attention to you … Unfortunately, this turn of events is very common. Passion and emotions are now in the past. If you still love your husband and want to resurrect their passion, then it is quite possible.
First, you need to carefully examine the current situation, because hasty conclusions can aggravate it even more. For some reason most women believe that if he does not pay attention to them, it means that he has another woman. Certainly, it happens sometimes, but it’s not the only reason for the indifferent attitude. If you know the reason, you can much faster and easier to find a way out.
Recently, one of the magazines had a social survey among married men aged 28-30 years. His results showed that after a few years of marriage, most men are not so much pay attention to the appearance of his wife. More important they consider her spiritual and moral qualities.
That is understandable, after all, women love their husbands, not for their stylish haircut and beautiful clothes. Of course, now we are not talking about those women who stopped taking care of herself. In this case, it is immediately clear why the husband stopped paying attention to them.
There are problems
So why is beautiful, well-groomed, intelligent women find themselves in this situation? In fact, this question can have a huge number of responses. Your husband may have problems at work, financial difficulties and other reasons.
Women always appreciate more spiritual and sensual world, and men are more prone to self-affirmation. If you are in a good relationship with your spouse, then you will be easy to find out the cause of his sad thoughts and offer him help in resolving the problem.
What to do, if he does not pay attention to me?
Maybe he just wants a little personal space. Instead of pestering him with questions rather spend that time on yourself. Try too little to move away from him. But not too much, of course.
Get a one day a week for yourself and tell your husband about it. May this time be only yours. Engaged in fitness, shopping, or communicate with your friends.