Does he like me? Is he interested? These are questions that you may find yourself asking when a new man enters the picture. It begun when you and your friend were talking; you noticed him standing in the corner. You think you also caught his attention, think your eyes met, think you had a moment, but pass it off as wishful thinking. Now you’re wondering whether he does indeed like you back, so here are five signs that will help you understand whether he is interested in you or not.
1. He lets someone know
Is he into me? He’s definitely into you if he lets a mutual friend know that he’d like to know more about you, or if he asks people things like who you are or where you come from. It may come off as if he’s just asking or being nosey, but these interrogative questions show more than just some friendly interest. He may also try to tell someone that he thinks you’re attractive in hopes of his words getting back to you.
2. He gives you a look
He may shoot you a look that goes against his usual cool and calm self. Although he is on the other side of the room, “that look” he gives you says everything. It’s the cascade from your head to toes, with his eyes then retreating back to your face to linger on yours. You’ll then notice the slight pull of a crooked smile.
3. Your conversations
When tries to be around you, to chat and ask questions about yourself and your life, he’s into you. He’ll be tentatively listening and responding to the words you say. You’ll find that he’s inching, slowly but surely, to the biggest question on his mind, “Are you seeing anyone at the moment?”. He would only dare ask you this if he was interested in dating you, hoping that the answer is, of course, “no”.
4. He shows up randomly
He definitely likes you a lot if he randomly shows up unexpectedly. He’s only able to do this if he has asked people about your schedule or timetable, or has been noting where you usually are during the day. He may go tomato red when you lock eyes. A poorly acted “Oh, hello” is his code for “I don’t want to seem desperate, but I am into you”. If your feelings are mutual, don’t act distant or shy; actually stop and chat with him.
5. You are well-liked by everyone
When you are a happy person that’s loved by everyone, why wouldn’t this guy be attracted to you, as well? He’s attracted to that vibe you’re giving off to absolutely everyone. If your life isn’t so great at the moment, start working on it. Examine your career prospects, future, body image, and any plans. When you’re confident in yourself and what you’re doing, it shows, and he’ll want a piece of that confidence and certainty, too!
There you have it, these are five signs that definitely point to his interest in you! Just hang on, he’s building the confidence to ask you out, so take away some of his stress and make it easy for him – be friendly and happy. If he finds you to be approachable, you’ll be sharing gelato down by the beach in no time!