I know some girls who have had some success in business, earn more than their husbands. But with all this, they tell me the consultations: “I want to be happy and loved!“.
They want to be happy, want to spend time on the relationship, the fact to be closer to your loved ones, to spend more time with them, they even plan to children, but it still does not work.
My husband thinks slowly
I have quite a lot of customers who come and complain that her husband was “slow on the uptake”, “I already understand everything, but why then he brakes? I did tell him, but he does not listen. “
This reveals only a desire to compete and show who is above. In partnership does not need to be “above” or “below”, it is necessary to go together on the same level.
And here we can talk about how much responsibility you want, because we did choose our partner, and then say, “I chose wrong. I need to someone livelier, more energetic, and I so cool, and the partner slows. “
In a relationship there is not someone better and someone worse
This competition is very spoils the relationship. In a relationship there is not someone better and someone worse. We are different, but we chose to be together, and our differences – it is a value.
Partnerships develop when we are able to look anew, when we choose each time to look old – “he did so, and I ‘,’ this is good, this is bad” – and try to learn something new about it , see new valuable qualities: “I wonder why I chose this man that it valuable that I still do not see it that I would have appreciated more?”.
Woman does not need to step on their own rakes, she does not need to demand from his men something to surprise her. If you are in a relationship and really start any problems, you should find some new positive traits from her husband.