Do you know how to know if he or she is marriage material? As a dating guru that is now about to be married, I want to take the time to share some past dating information along to my fans. It will help anyone that is about to pop the question, or needs to know if they should say yes or no to the one they think they love.
The first thing that you look for beyond that chemistry is the friendship. It’s been said a ton of times, but you can not build a relationship on sex alone. You should have things in common.You must be best friends as well. That means that you genuinely believe that the other person would always believe in you, no matter what happens in your life. That’s truly important too, because life can get really messy. If the person you are considering isn’t your greatest fan, then move on to the next “applicant.”
It goes without saying that respect is one of the most important things to look for in any relationship. When it comes to love, this is doubly important. If either person show problems with respect, then it is probably best to not marry them. If you do see that respect for one another’s feelings, needs and boundaries, then you might just have found the right one for your life.
Does your significant other “get” you? Does he or she know what you like, how you believe, and what you want from life? It is important to be accepted for who you are in life. No matter what the details are, do they know them and love you? That’s when you know it might be the right match for your life.
Go Team Go!
Conflict is going to happen in the dating game, even if you are in love. If you really want to know if he or she is marriage material, then check out the statistics when you disagree. If they are all of the above and can say “I’m sorry,” when it’s needed, then you have a winner. Just make sure you are willing to apologize when you mess up too. Remember, it’s not about being perfect, it’s just about being right for one another.
Anything is Fun
When you feel like you just can’t live without him or her, then it’s time. When you really love someone, where you go or what you do just doesn’t matter. If he or she is the one that you want to be with no matter what, and all of the above matches as well, then it’s time to consider if they are marriage material. That’s when your answer should be yes.