Fresh relationships are full of passion and butterflies. Every touch or kiss makes your heart jump. Getting to know each other as a person, and sexually is thrilling in the beginning and is later transformed into comfort. Comfort is nice, but a combination of comfort and passion is better.
It is incredibly important that you not slack with hygiene and making yourself look nice. Something so simple can dissipate due to losing motivation once you have that ring on your finger. It is a must that you continue to shave, trim, and wax. Women just tell themselves that men don’t honestly care about some extra hair, but they do. Also, making sure your hair and nails are done can make a difference. Men want hair that is bouncy and looks like something they can pull on and when men are watching your hands wander, they should not see dirty nails. There should not be too much emphasis on make up, but something classic and natural is always appreciated.
Keep date nights and time in the bedroom spontaneous. Don’t get stuck in a rut going to the same restaurant followed by having predictable sex in the bedroom. For example, surprise him with a trip to a car museum followed by dressing like a sexy mechanic when you get home and instead of going to the bed in the bedroom, go to the car in the garage (even if it is a Hyundai Tucson). New outfits and locations are great ways to spice things up.
Some other great ways to spice things up include role playing, sneaking around, and bringing some new toys into the bedroom. Keep things fresh and remember, comfortable is nice, but don’t lose that spice!