While true love enriches the inner world of man, makes it nobler, better, kinder, stimulates its development as a person, the love dependence destroys everything and often leads to psychosomatic diseases.
Psychologists have long noted that love addiction affects mostly women for some reason. This condition disrupts a woman’s personality and looks like drug addiction. This situation causes pain, and the feeling that love – a worry, almost a disease. This happens when an irresistible and overwhelming passion for someone cuts a woman from life, deprives acquired experience, lets be open, strong, free in the surrounding world.
A simple technique to get rid of love dependence
Being in a comfortable, warm, quiet place to relax and try to immerse yourself into a trance.
Very clearly imagine what feelings you would like to experience in the subject of your unrequited love. This may be indifference, hostility or even disgust.
Imagine that this person in front of you.
Move it away from you and make more blurred and dim.
Now imagine that he does something ridiculous or unattractive or remember the real situation when his actions or words you do not like.
Consider these points in detail, feel and remember them.
Pick 5 such situations.
How can more realistically imagine that this man was aged in front of you, his face wrinkles, the body becomes flabby, decrepit, he loses his posture, his teeth fall out …
Mentally immerse him into the bathroom, where there are animals or insects, to which you have an aversion – frogs, mice, cockroaches, worms. It is steeped in such filth that it is impossible to touch.
Again mentally imagine this man as he is in reality. You still feel love for him? If yes, then do it again a few more times. Enough?
Count to 10 and get out of the trance.
Besides this method, there are many ways to overcome love addiction, using self-hypnosis and self-training. Our mind can work miracles, you just send it in the right direction.