Armfuls of roses, long walks and kisses – the beginning of a romantic relationship so like a fairy tale! Here it is, your long-awaited prince on a white horse – the most beautiful, the most intelligent, the most affectionate. You are ready to live with him all your life, and hence, is not far off white dress.
Oh, if this scenario was always carried out in reality! But fabulous developments – the exception rather than the rule of everyday reality. In life, not everything is so easy and cloudless. Often it takes some weeks, months, years, elect vows to love and continues to give you gifts, just a suggestion to get married does not arrive. Sometimes during the meeting delayed indefinitely, sometimes it is replaced by living together unmarried, and a full family does not exist. Gradually you realize that weddings and all can not be, if you do not take the initiative in your hands.
What do you do in this situation? First, you must go on the offensive. Second, learn the rules of the game and learn the basic ways how to get a man to marry you.
Before carrying out further activities, choose a time when your chosen one will be in a good mood, and talk to him heart to heart. Try directly to find out why your favorite not making an offer to get married. Perhaps the reason would be less important than you think. For example, he does not have money for big celebration and honeymoon.
Ironically, the best strategic ally in this struggle can be … your future mother in law. Try to find out as much information about your future in-laws – it tastes, habits, hobbies, lifestyle – and make good impression on her. Show that you have all the makings of a perfect wife, that your love is strong. And then his mother will be on your side.
The above-described methods of influence on bachelors give guaranteed positive result and no side effects. However, they are slowly and gradually. Along with them, there are other ways to get a man to marry – and promptly, but not so harmless. Their application – a big risk, a crucial situation once and for all, or a wedding, or gap, final and irrevocable.
“Unplanned” Pregnancy – the most commonly used and most risky way to get a man to marry you. This method is unethical. This is valid only for a very responsible men, and men who dream about fatherhood. If your choice is not such as pregnancy will only scare him and, most likely, you’ll be one.
Ultimatum. Good except for a very protracted situations when other methods provide certainty in intercourse. You say, “We’re getting married, or I’m leaving.”
In conclusion, I will reveal another secret. A truly happy marriage can not create those women who have learned to be happy alone. Be self-sufficient, successful, beautiful. Love and be worthy of love, and let your wedding day will be a memorable holiday for both of you.