When each of the girls start a serious relationship, they all want for a moment to look into the future to see what the relationship will be. Nobody wants quarrels, constant insults, farewells … Everyone wants to live happily and without suffering injuries. But the situation when a beloved man out, is not so rare. It happens quite often. There are women who can put up with this unpleasant situation, and there are those who forgive and forget all the bad things, thus opening a new chapter of her life – a life without him. And there are those who are willing to do anything to the beloved returned.
The question of “how to get the man she loved,” psychologists get very often, you can even say with a certain regularity. Is it even possible.
The most important thing in such an unpleasant situation is to understand why you want to return the person with whom nothing happened. Is it love or maybe a desire for revenge? Do not try to return a man just because he hurt your pride or because you want to ruin his life. It can not lead to anything good.
Still very important to understand that a man left you for another woman or just from you. When answering this question, you must decide whether you want to forgive him, or maybe you need to forgive myself. After all, feeling hurt, you destroy yourself.
In short, before starting operation called “Return of men in the family”, you need to be 100% sure that you really need it … What are you willing to forgive all wrongs … What are you willing to quite difficult and long fight for your love …
Analyze the problem
Perform analysis of the situation in mind. But just do not need to succumb to emotions – control yourself. Try to remember some of his mistakes he made in the past, as well as their own. Maybe were constant scandals, accusations and lack of understanding on your part? All this could be the reason why a man left you.
It is important at this stage to remove all illusions. For example, if you understand the mind that your man is a womanizer, and is unlikely to change, to be honest myself to admit it and decide whether you need a man. If necessary, go to the re-“conquest”.