After a successful first date, the main goal most of us have in mind is to land a second one. We want to see that special person again, and for the most part, we want to see them soon. Therefore, here are four ways to land a second date.
Exciting First Date
If you do things right on the first date, you will almost have nothing to worry about going forward. First impressions mean a lot and lead people to future perceptions about each other. If your date sees you as an exciting person to spend time with, they may ask you for a second date before you ever ask them for one.
Follow Up Phone Conversation
If your first date was pleasurable, or you found the person to be very attractive, you should let them know. Hopefully you received their phone number on or before the date. If so, let them know about the good experience you shared with them, how they look, and why you want to see them again.
They may have reservations and really want to know if you like them. Therefore, your follow up phone call may mean more to them than it does to you.
Recall a Common Interest
If you really connected on a certain topic, recall it on the follow up call after your first date. That one topic may end up being the center of your relationship and possibly lead things to new levels between you two.
Ask for Help
Hopefully you learned a lot about your date on the first date. With that, maybe there is something that they do well that they can guide you on. If so, ask them for their assistance and invite out or over to your place to meet.
If they are kind, they will be excited to help you. It will also give them a significant sense of importance in your life.
Use the meeting engagement as a time to share something such as a meal, snack, or possibly even a movie. Before it is all said and done you will have established your second date.