Relationships often turn sour. When we are in the midst of this transition, it is hard to see clearly. While you are looking for answers, they tend to avoid you. The emotional frenzy keeps you attached and distant at the same time. If you are seeking clarity than these five warning signs will help.
1. Communication has ended
At some point in the relationship communication became strained. If it is over the communication has ceased entirely. You and the other party most likely make attempts to remedy this problem in vein. No matter how hard you try, it would seem there is no getting through.
2. Power Struggles Have Escalated
The meeting of two personalities is a volatile thing. Power struggles are common in relationships. Normally we find a balance, surrender and move on. However, if your relationship is ending the power struggle are escalating. It would seem the balance you once found is gone, and an all out war has begun.
When you felt on solid ground with your partner trust was innate. Now suspicion rears its ugly head. The constant conflict and disharmony makes you question everything.
4. You Begin To Protect Yourself
Your partner was once the safest person on the planet to you. This sensation has shifted. You brace yourself when you come up to the door. Within the toxicity that your relationship has become you have begun to protect your heart. This fact is unsettling.
5. That Attachment Is Gone
There was a time when you could not see yourself with anyone else. The mere thought of not having this person in your life was overwhelming. Although as the situation between the two of you worsens, you find your attachment lessens. Freedom is calling your name, and you feel inclined to answer. At this point, you know it is over.