Relationships are living organism that is constantly evolving and being transformed into something new. Before changing relations to a new stage of development, they are preceded by a time of crisis.
Not every quarrel of lovers – it is a crisis in the relationship. But there is a certain pattern of behavior of partners, which eventually leads to the onset of serious disagreements.
Crisis 3 years in a relationship – it is the first serious conflict in the pair. It does not necessarily occur exactly three years later. Psychologists say this timeframe within three to five years. It is through such a period of time the partners begin to get tired of each other. They fully know each other, sex and life becomes monotonous. In different pairs of the problem may have a different expression.
This is interesting! Recent studies of British scientists showed that after three years of marriage couples spend to clarify the relationship and quarrels 2.7 hours per week. At the beginning of the relationship, the figure is only 1.2 hours.
How to overcome the first family crisis?
To overcome the crisis three years later relations, it is important to return to everyday life romance. Oddly enough, but the usual romantic candlelight dinner and informal conversation will help to dot the “i”.
It is important not to swear, and then tune in to not only listen, but also to try to understand each other. Close intimate contact will also help in overcoming the crisis. So you reach mutual understanding and problems that seemed serious, are expected to become solved.
If romantic atmosphere does not help and it seems that the problems are so deep, that the candles and romantic music will not solve them, you can try a temporary separation. This does not mean that the spouses must disperse, everyone started to live their lives. Couples are leaving and analyzed in a tranquil setting, which caused relations crisis. If you cope with the problems does not work, a good solution would be recourse to a psychologist. Should not hesitate to go to a psychologist and talk to a stranger about their problems. Psychologist primarily a doctor of the soul, which will help solve the problem, get rid of resentment and conflict.