Pain can evolved from various situations. We can fall and hurt ourselves, we can cut our hand with a knife, or we can feel pain when a child does something to awful that it is unbelievable and causes lasting pain. Have you ever felt that type of pain? Have you ever been hurt by one of your children who did something so awful that he now is in jail? This is the worse type of Pain that I could imagine and most mothers will agree – especially if your child killed someone. I cannot even fathom how I would feel.
We bring a child into this world. We suffer such a pain that comes from the delivery. We hold the child in our arms and cuddle them the moment they come out into this world. The joy a mother feels at this moment cannot even be described. And then, they grow up and instead of going on the straight and narrow line, they get involved with the wrong crowd. You, as a mother, have lost control of your child. He or she now are swayed by their crowd.
You cry. That is what a mother is supposed to do but the tears do not help when the judge sentences your son, your baby that came out of you, that you cuddled and loved, has been sentenced to a life in jail, never to return to you, your house or your children. No one can understand the pain. Just writing about me makes me feel sick. No, I have never felt or been apart of such a horrible thing but just thinking about it and writing about it makes me wonder Why, would such a beautiful child, do such a horrible thing.
I guess there is no real answer, as you turn around and go home and hear the chains on your child clatter as he is brought back to jail.
+this is not what I have personally experienced but think about what a mother who has, feels. in a situation like this. Reading about the crimes a child commits gave me the idea to write this about the mother’s view
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