There are some things that are just a bigger deal to women. Some things men may not even realize could be a deal breaker. Here’s my opinion on what men in a relationship should not take lightly.
Forgotten Birthday, Anniversary, or Valentine’s Day
Forgetting your girlfriend or wife’s birthday etc. is really hurtful and can be a major deal because it seems as though you are not placing importance or value on the day of recognition. To most women, showing you care involves remembering these certain days. Not to mention the embarrassment to her in front of friends and family when they ask what did you do or get her.
Not giving a title
If a guy has been dating a woman for a significant period of time, more than likely the woman is wondering “where is this going?” So introducing her as your girlfriend instead of saying just her name, or calling her “friend,” (which will probably get you dumped) will be a big deal. She wants to know that you have some level of commitment.
Not helping out
If a man doesn’t help his mate when she needs him, then a level of trust and dependability will be lost. Sometimes it can be really hard to gain it back. So being there in the time of need whether it’s small or little is very important.
Not spending time together
In a relationship, quality time is important. Memories are lasting and priceless. Make sure memories you create are good ones. Time spent arguing and fighting is not memories you want to hold on to. So if you fight more than you love one another, then you should seek counseling if you want to hold onto your relationship. Women love to spend quality time with their man, so the lack if time can definitely break a relationship.
Saying “I love you”
If you both haven’t said I love you for the first time, the first time you do will be a very big deal. It is the next level in the relationship. So if one person says I love you, and the other person isn’t feeling it could cause a problem in the relationship. So make sure before you say it, there’s a good chance the other person will say it back. If you been together a while and already said the words to your significant other, make sure you say it often. Men sometimes think, she knows I love her, I don’t need to keep saying it. Well, women love to hear these words from the man in their life. If you hardly ever say “I love you,” things could go sour.