I came across an article last night that was supposed to be about what men find irresistible in a woman. Intrigued, I started to read the article out loud to my fiancé. By the second bullet point that men find irresistible, he interrupted me saying “This wasn’t written by a man.” This statement made me laugh of course, but then prompted the question, “What do real men find irresistible?” His answers surprised me, but in a very good way. So listen up ladies, because this is the best list I’ve ever heard, and it’s straight from the mouth of a real man.
Nothing is sexier than confidence. When women know we’re looking hot for the night, we tend to flaunt our stuff. Men love that. A woman who knows that she can get a look from every man in the room, gets the looks from every man in the room. Carry yourself with respect, class and confidence, and you will ooze sex appeal. Walk into the room like you own the place and you will. Make your man brag to his buddies that you are his girl.
As women, we have the stereo-type of being needy. Unfortunately, many of us live up to this. Don’t! Be an independent woman! Encourage your man to go out with his friends, you go have fun with yours. A real man wants a woman that can go and do her own thing, while he does his. Let him play his video games, or watch whatever game might be on, without having to be right next to him. Find your own independent things to do. You both need your space some times, and it’s an attractive quality to let him have his freedom.
The old saying ” the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” still seems to ring true. This does not mean you have to be an award winning chef to keep your man happy, but learning how to cook up something better than macaroni and cheese doesn’t hurt. There’s so many resources for cooking that there’s no excuse! In five minutes you can find a meal for any budget, time constraint, or diet. So spend some time perfecting your cooking skills and you’ll feel the satisfaction of filling his belly.
4 Pay for Things
Even the biggest gentleman wants you to pay your own way sometimes. As women, we feel special when our man pays for things, shouldn’t your man get to feel the same way? When you go out to dinner or a movie, pay once in a while. Don’t complain after though! Make sure you pay and mean it. We are strong, independent women, and we should want to make our men feel special too.
5 Take Care of Yourself
It’s a little too true that when people get into a long term relationship, get engaged, or even get married, they stop trying to take care of themselves. They may stop exercising, putting on make up, doing their hair, or any number of things. Why? Would we want our men to stop trying for us? I know I don’t! Being attracted to someone is a very big part of a relationship, so I expect my man will stay attractive for me, just as I will for him. This does not mean every minute of every day you need to dress to impress, you can wear your sweats and skip your makeup sometimes too. But don’t let that become normal, don’t let yourself stop caring about how you look, because remember number 1- confidence is sexy!
So ladies, that’s it. There are no tricks, there are no gimmicks. It’s plain and simple. Our men want us to be confident, independent, beautiful ladies who spoil them once in a while. We should want to be these kind of ladies too!