Cheaters are a special bunch, and they come in all shapes and sizes, but the one thing they all have in common is cheaters tell lies.
It’s no big surprise, and it’s not an insult to cheaters. It’s just a fact. You have to tell lies if you’re a cheater, and it can take lots of lies to keep all those balls in the air. What lies do cheaters commonly tell?
Well, the number one category of lies cheaters tell concerns their telephone. Cheaters are very secretive about their conversations, text messages, and images. For instance, if your mate gets phone calls that he tries to keep private, or he tries to hide certain text messages, “Run Forest Run.” People who have nothing to hide are not concerned about others seeing their phone, or text messages or hearing their conversations. Secrecy is never a good sign.
The second category of lies cheaters tell concerns their living space. Have you ever been to his place? If you have never seen where your guy lives, “Run Forest.”. You’ve got a cheater on your hands. Don’t get involved in a relationship until you see where and how your prospective mate lives. If, for any reason, you cannot or have not seen his living space, there’s a reason and it isn’t good. He’s probably married or living with someone else.
The third category of lies cheaters tell comes from the cheaters we’ll call night-crawlers. He always comes to your place, at night, and you rarely go anywhere together. You haven’t met any of his family members, and you may only know of one or two of his friends. That’s a huge red flag. You may possibly be a booty-call.
The fourth category of lies cheaters tell comes from Mr. Excuses. This cheater is always late, or doesn’t bother to show up at all. He tells a bunch of lies in the form of excuses. Run and run fast from this one. It’s another big red flag. He may be juggling you and one or two other relationships, and you deserve better.
The fifth category of lies cheaters tell centers around the holidays. Now this is a biggie. If your man is never available on holidays, or makes excuses about why he can’t spend them with you, then you may be the second-string in a cheaters triangle. Where he spends the holidays is home base, and if it’s not with you, it speaks volumes. He is probably spending the holidays with his wife and children.
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